I just made a cup of chamomile tea to sit down and write some words about my dad. When I meet his friends they all talk about how entertaining he was and how outgoing and friendly. I suppose I can see that in him, but that is certainly not how I would have described him. I would have used words like quiet, serious, and caring. My earliest memories of my dad are of him being a caretaker. He would take my brother and I over to check in on my grandmother and make sure she had everything she needed and was doing okay. She lived in a group home of sorts on Home Road. I just remember the garage had a pony painted over the door. I was five when she passed. I remember him taking us over to his sister’s place—to Aunt Betty’s apartment. Seems like he was bringing her food and making repairs around the home. I remember Aunt Betty laughed a lot, had white hair, wore lots of red and was in a wheelchair. I have even fewe...
a part of me for her